Monday, March 12, 2012

A Long Distance Dom

So I've begun, over the past few weeks, to establish a relationship with an online Dom. The trouble - and perhaps the blessing - is that he is long distance. We established a connection through ALT.com and began exchanging messages. He was incredibly patient with this 'newbie' and spoke from a point of some knowledge. I could tell from our initial conversations that he was...I guess you could say, wise in the lifestyle. Judging from the photos, I could also tell he was in shape and his profile was written with a level of intelligence.

However, I was becoming a bit frustrated. We'd exchange a message or two each day and I craved more. Finally, I was about to give up and told him "It's too bad you didn't live closer. You seem perfect for me." He replied a few hours later asking me if I had considered a long distance Dom. My reply was a simple "Is that even possible?"

He explained the obvious limitations but also expressed the things he could do for me. I was intrigued and told him I was interested. He asked me to verify who I was and we sat down for a video chat. He was as gorgeous and understanding as his online profile. After we spoke for some time, I took a chance and asked him if we could text. He did ask me to 'confirm' that I was real and that I was 'of age' (something, understandably, that he had concerns with - do I look that young? LOL). I did show by flashing the birthdate on my driver's license.

We've been talking for a few days now via text. It's been amazing. He has helped me in a number of nonsexual ways already. I can tell he will make me a better person and I've submitted to his domination as best I can. I've not discounted the idea of having a local Dom...but for now, this is a wonderful initiation.

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