BDSM and Cock Size

A lot of women will tell you that cock size doesn't matter.  I am not one of them.  The size of a man matters.

A Dominant man, to me, has to have a big, thick cock.  It just doesn't 'work' for me to have someone I am going to submit to, be disciplined by and be collared to a guy that has a small cock.  I know this goes against the whole grain of current society...size doesn't matter....but I am not looking for a traditional relationship.

Now, I should also say you don't have to have a horse dick...lol.  I am not a size queen needing someone that is 10 inches or something (I am quite sure that would just hurt and...frankly, wouldn't fit).  But he should have enough for both my petite hands to wrap around.  Judging by my hands (yes, I did just get a tape measure out) that means he should have eight or so inches.  I also want something that I have to 'stuff' in my mouth or in my ya ya.  I want my hands to barely be able to wrap around it...or not.  If you are reading this and seeing how you measure up...let's see...if I form a circle...that looks to be about five and a half to six inches in circumference.

I saw a listing on ALT.com last week from a guy that went by the handle of 9 by 6 or something like that....perhaps I should look to see if I can find that listing again.  Hopefully, the fact that he lists his size means he is a good Dom too.  Although, I don't really recall how fit a body he had....so perhaps I need to find another 9 by 6..or even 8 by 6 guy.  Where are you my dream guy?  I want my mouth stuffed while you slap my (now tanned) bare ass and call me your good little slut.  Hopefully you have a brain too and are older than 35...or 45.

Whisper to Me. Dominate Me.

There hasn't been something that I've considered as much as this. I've thought about why someone like me - strong, passionate, assertive - would want to submit to a man.  I'm passionate....maybe too much so for many would-be Doms.  If you cannot handle or do not appreciate a strong, passionate woman, you probably would not like me.

I know that I'm probably 'too normal' to find what i seek in a Dom male. But, I have been so fascinated with aspects of this lifestyle for so long that I can honestly say I don't go long without my mind drifting to very vivid images of bondage, being trained, being dominated and being disciplined.

I've thought about why some men are submissive and some are dominant. I've thought about why some extremely attractive men just don't 'do it' for me. I like an intelligent man that loves the art of conversation. I don't want to feel like I interview him and he just answers yes or no. Engage.....that shows interest. I like a worldly man. Someone that has some life experiences. I like confidence...and I like someone that is almost a bit 'cocky'...and I like Dominant.  That's probably why I am attracted to men much older than me. The more you have to share the more interesting you are to me. I prefer educated & professional. It is just my type.

I've thought about what it is within us that makes us desire BDSM.  I think the answers to all those questions run really deep within us.  The sights, the sounds, the emotions, the sensations.....it is a very powerful image in my mind and one that has taken root. I believe I was born submissive and have finally realized that which I crave.

A Dom of Intelligence and Grace

I need intelligence and grace at the end of my leash.. A good Dom loves his submissive. He cares for her and desires only her best and highest good. He shelters her and provides for her. He protects and trains her. He disciplines only when she is in need of correction. He honors and reveres her as his sacred goddess, his lover and his slut. He is noble, trustworthy and honorable. He loves His submissive and gives of his very life for her love and commitment to him. She is beautiful to Him and he, equally, to her. Where is this one I seek?

What sort of woman am I?

While I enjoy being sexually submissive, I have my own mind, my own responsibilities, and my own interests. I run, I meditate. I have a healthy body and mind. I draw, I paint, I work, and I am a smart ass little masochist. LOL I respect myself and expect anyone I am involved with to respect me. I'm educated, playful, and usually have a big smile on my face. I am self-assured and self-resourceful.

I am a also a total, complete and utter pain slut who loves, needs, wants and craves hard, pounding, rough sex. I crave discipline. I love to be forced to suck a man's cock, fingered hard, slapped on the ass, breasts, pussy and face (okay, not so hard on the last two, please).

I am a submissive, I am a heavy player, and open to new ideas. I consider respect of my master the most important aspect of a good D/S relationship. Likewise, I would hope to meet a Dom where we both respect each other equally. I feel as though choosing to submit to a man is more empowering as I woman than anything I have done. I hope to do that some day soon.

My BDSM Desire

I think this says all that anyone needs to know about me :)

I want to be collared. I want to be held in bondage. I want to be tained. I desire a partner and a Dom.

Frustrated with my Online Search for a Dom

I am finally getting a little frustrated with my online search for a local Dom. How many times must one submissive be flaked on to have ONE guy show up? Where are the real guys who have the balls to go through with what they claim to want?

It's getting so bad that I can tell, by the way they end the conversation, whether they are going to flake or not. It become so bad that I've begun to make back-up plans because I can guess that, despite my showing up, they are not going to make it. It's interesting too, as I become more experienced in the language and the 'code' that I am beginning to easily determine who is and who isn't for real.
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I put forth effort to make and keep plans, I deserve at LEAST that same respect. So, if you are on ALT.com and are interested in getting to know a woman that knows what she seeks and you can show up, send me a message.

Oh, and by the way....

If your way of getting to know me is:

1) Asking for more pictures

2) Asking if I would do this or that

3) Asking me how I would handle THIS scenario...

Keep moving on.  I want you to tell me how you would handle this scenario, what you would do and I expect you to have photos :)

Pool Bar

I really want to go to a seedy bar in a sexy secretary outfit. You can probably envision what I've in mind - tight, short jean skirt, thigh high stockings, stilettos, white cotton button down. Open the shirt down to just below my cleavage but revealing a black lacy push up bra underneath. While my breasts are not large, I can create major cleavage. I pick up a pool stick and challenge you to a game.

As I bend over to take my shot (I'm a pretty good player), my hair down over my shoulders and a little makeup for my red, full lips, I want you right behind me, discovering my pantyless, hairless, wet pussy. You walk up behind as I watch my shot go in, press your throbbing cock into my ass. You put a hand on my neck, choking just a bit, in full view of all. You tell me it's time to go and, when we arrive, you immediately punish me for being such a naughty slut.

Pool anyone?