Wednesday, January 18, 2012

A Little More About a Young Rope and Heels

No, not the blog but me! :)

So as I've already said in my "about me" area of this page (and my profile), I am in my late 20's.  I'd rather not say other than I am approaching 30 very soon.  I grew up in the desert southwest but was originally born in the midwest.  I grew up in a strict religious home but also had the dichotomy of having a lot of freedom.  This allowed me to really explore my sexuality while also keeping up the appearance, to my parents anyway, that I was a 'good girl'.  I went to college locally and have a degree in business.  I am a member of a national sorority, still have some good friends from my college years but don't really keep in touch with most of them.

My sexual experience started fairly young. I gave myself to my first boyfriend when I was 14....pretty young - even by today's standard.  He was 17 (my parents didn't really know I even HAD a boyfriend).  It was your typical first experience, rushed, fast and left me thinking, "It has to be better than this!"  Over my junior high and high school years, I guess my experience was pretty typical of the average girl.  I am confident I was having a lot more sex than most my friends...the popular kids.  By all appearances, I was 'normal'.  I had good grades, went to church almost every Sunday, hung out with friends and, mostly secretly, had sex.....a lot of sex.  I learned how to give a good blow job (and used that skill when I was on my 'monthly' quite often, usually practiced safe sex (yes, there were those times where I panicked over unprotected sex) and had boyfriends (some weren't really boyfriends as much as, what is known today as, Friends w/ Benefits.

I graduated near the top of my class, participated in volleyball (I was short so I was relegated to 'setter'), worked at a water park and had a pretty suburban existence. As I said, I stayed close to home for college but really 'moved away' from my family after my freshmen year.  I lived with a couple other girls that were in my house that were pretty wild (also, despite their outward appearance) and, relative to them, I thought I was pretty mild.  I dated throughout college having only one major boyfriend for a period of about six months.  I was dedicated to getting good grades, participating in my sorority and partying when it was 'safe'.  I continued to explore my own sexuality and found more things I liked than disliked.  I always went for the alpha male.  The guy that was just a bit too confident...too sure of himself.  I wanted to show him that he wasn't all that...and most of the time, I did.

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