Checking out Rope Bondage websites

Over the weekend, I was back out on the internet searching for sites to learn a bit more about BDSM. I came across some really good sites about rope and began to explore all there is to know about bondage rope. It is quite intriguing and, it appears, the Japanese have a long history of rope, intricate knots, bondage and suspension. I was so involved, I must have spent four or five hours on Saturday looking it over, studying it and even ordered some samples.  I am excited for their arrival!

I feel like such a rookie when it comes to talking about this so perhaps others that read this, that are more knowledgeable than I, can respond with the best rope to use.   Hemp rope seems to be the most widely used rope for bondage.  However, when I look at pictures of it, it looks a bit more coarse than what I'd like to try...at least the first time.  Jute looks a bit less coarse and I am thinking that, within my budget, perhaps this is the best choice for starting out.

I did watch some YouTube videos about bondage and did find an interesting article about a bondage rope harness that has me wanting to learn all about the different types of bondage ties that are possible.  I am not sure how I can learn without having a subject to tie up.  I am sure I can take a class but perhaps getting my free samples will allow me to figure out an 'at home' way I can practice a bit.

I also want to figure out what, inside me, makes me so wet with thoughts of being tied up.  In my search, I can across a site that gave me some possible explanations of why I want to be tied up.  It seems to oversimplify suggesting that I want to submit and give up control. It may very well be that bondage, for me, is just a bridge to take me some place else that I want to go. Right now, I see it as an occasional dash of spice into an, otherwise, vanilla sex life but I could see where my world could have more focus on this than a vanilla escape.  I see bondage as liberating in many ways.  It allows things to happen that couldn't otherwise happen. I do know this....it's a form of pleasure that I can no longer deny.