There hasn't been something that I've considered as much as this. I've thought about why someone like me - strong, passionate, assertive - would want to submit to a man. I'm passionate....maybe too much so for many would-be Doms. If you cannot handle or do not appreciate a strong, passionate woman, you probably would not like me.
I know that I'm probably 'too normal' to find what i seek in a Dom male. But, I have been so fascinated with aspects of this lifestyle for so long that I can honestly say I don't go long without my mind drifting to very vivid images of bondage, being trained, being dominated and being disciplined.
I've thought about why some men are submissive and some are dominant. I've thought about why some extremely attractive men just don't 'do it' for me. I like an intelligent man that loves the art of conversation. I don't want to feel like I interview him and he just answers yes or no. Engage.....that shows interest. I like a worldly man. Someone that has some life experiences. I like confidence...and I like someone that is almost a bit 'cocky'...and I like Dominant. That's probably why I am attracted to men much older than me. The more you have to share the more interesting you are to me. I prefer educated & professional. It is just my type.
I've thought about what it is within us that makes us desire BDSM. I think the answers to all those questions run really deep within us. The sights, the sounds, the emotions, the sensations.....it is a very powerful image in my mind and one that has taken root. I believe I was born submissive and have finally realized that which I crave.
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