BDSM and Cock Size

A lot of women will tell you that cock size doesn't matter.  I am not one of them.  The size of a man matters.

A Dominant man, to me, has to have a big, thick cock.  It just doesn't 'work' for me to have someone I am going to submit to, be disciplined by and be collared to a guy that has a small cock.  I know this goes against the whole grain of current society...size doesn't matter....but I am not looking for a traditional relationship.

Now, I should also say you don't have to have a horse dick...lol.  I am not a size queen needing someone that is 10 inches or something (I am quite sure that would just hurt and...frankly, wouldn't fit).  But he should have enough for both my petite hands to wrap around.  Judging by my hands (yes, I did just get a tape measure out) that means he should have eight or so inches.  I also want something that I have to 'stuff' in my mouth or in my ya ya.  I want my hands to barely be able to wrap around it...or not.  If you are reading this and seeing how you measure up...let's see...if I form a circle...that looks to be about five and a half to six inches in circumference.

I saw a listing on ALT.com last week from a guy that went by the handle of 9 by 6 or something like that....perhaps I should look to see if I can find that listing again.  Hopefully, the fact that he lists his size means he is a good Dom too.  Although, I don't really recall how fit a body he had....so perhaps I need to find another 9 by 6..or even 8 by 6 guy.  Where are you my dream guy?  I want my mouth stuffed while you slap my (now tanned) bare ass and call me your good little slut.  Hopefully you have a brain too and are older than 35...or 45.

Whisper to Me. Dominate Me.

There hasn't been something that I've considered as much as this. I've thought about why someone like me - strong, passionate, assertive - would want to submit to a man.  I'm passionate....maybe too much so for many would-be Doms.  If you cannot handle or do not appreciate a strong, passionate woman, you probably would not like me.

I know that I'm probably 'too normal' to find what i seek in a Dom male. But, I have been so fascinated with aspects of this lifestyle for so long that I can honestly say I don't go long without my mind drifting to very vivid images of bondage, being trained, being dominated and being disciplined.

I've thought about why some men are submissive and some are dominant. I've thought about why some extremely attractive men just don't 'do it' for me. I like an intelligent man that loves the art of conversation. I don't want to feel like I interview him and he just answers yes or no. Engage.....that shows interest. I like a worldly man. Someone that has some life experiences. I like confidence...and I like someone that is almost a bit 'cocky'...and I like Dominant.  That's probably why I am attracted to men much older than me. The more you have to share the more interesting you are to me. I prefer educated & professional. It is just my type.

I've thought about what it is within us that makes us desire BDSM.  I think the answers to all those questions run really deep within us.  The sights, the sounds, the emotions, the sensations.....it is a very powerful image in my mind and one that has taken root. I believe I was born submissive and have finally realized that which I crave.